6 SIMPLE PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT TIPS

 

What is Personality? Personality is something that people tend to think a lot about it. when we meet new people, whether through work, school, or social events, it is often their personality on which we immediately focus. The personality is the typical pattern of thinking, feeling, and behaviour that makes a person unique. When we say that someone has a "good personality" we meant that they are likeable and pleasant to be with. Everyone has their own qualities and traits which makes him/her unique. It is our personality that makes us who we are, but how exactly do our personality form and how we develop personality? So here are the most important personality development tips that should not be overlooked. 

1. Read more. Reading is one of the main key factor in personality development. Paragraphs and sometimes even sentences can change people. You read a health tip, and you try incorporating it. You read an interesting novel, and you metamorphose your thoughts and feelings to glide into its fantasy world. Every time you try such things, you add a little to your personality which gets ingrained over the time. Regular reading stimulates, improves, teaches and guides. It opens all the scopes of personality development. The more you read and cultivate new interests, the more interesting you are to others. 

2. Be an active Listener. Being a good listener is one of the greatest traits of personality development. When you are listening to someone its not just a gesture of respect but helps in having a meaningful and fruitful conversation. It shows your character. Also the better way to improve communication skills is Listening.

3. Believe in yourself. Don't give into pressure and face every challenge confidently. Either you will overcome the adversity or learn something invaluable. Don't wait until everything is just right. It will never be perfect. There will always be obstacles and less than perfect conditions. Have confidence with each step you take, you will grow stronger and stronger and more and more successful.

4. Be positive. Every individual has his/her positives. These positives are what one need to concentrate on. Know your strengths, Acknowledge them and work with them. THINK POSITIVE. A book named THE SECRET by Rhonda Byrne says "Thoughts become things". The power of positive thinking is a popular concept which can give you more confidence and improve your mood.

5. Do not compare. You bring your self-esteem  down by comparing yourself with others. That shrivels your personality and does not let your strengths blossom. Know that you are unique and perfect in your own way and are just incomparable.

6. Respect yourself. We are taught to respect others. Yet, many of us fail to respect ourselves. Self compassion and self respect makes you into a better person. Be kind to yourself and treat yourself well.